5 Day Count Down to Dinner Party + Free Printable

Surprise! Guests are coming this weekend!

Remember Mona Lisa Smile? There's a scene during which Marcia Gay Harden's character, the etiquette & elocution teacher, presents a scenario to her female pupils at Wellesley College. It involves an impromptu dinner party that the girls must be prepared for, or else doom their husband's career forever.

Thankfully, standards of entertainment are not quite as stringent in most circles today. When's the last time you wore a hostess apron to serve veal aspic?

In fact, most of the entertaining I do can be successfully planned and executed within just five days. Here's how we do it around here:

Monday: Make your plan for the week. Set yourself goals for each day up to the dinner party. Use my days to inspire your own plan.

Tuesday: Plan your menu. Decide whether you'll have a sit-down meal or buffet, indoor or out, fine china or paper plates? If actually serving dinner, keep things simple. If your get-together is a buffet or tea, have lots of options.

Wednesday: Plan for decorations and logistics. Decide if you'll use placemats or table cloths, or nothing at all. Think about details: napkin rings, coffee cups, trivets, table runners. Make sure you have arranged seating for everyone, and arrange a flow-of-traffic for a buffet or BBQ. Make a list of what you'll need. Make a grocery list.

Thursday: Clean.

Clean your guest bath, and put out fresh guest towels. Make sure there is soap and bathroom tissue available. Set up an air freshener like a candle, plug-in, or automatic spritzer, something that will keep the bathroom smelling fresh without having to worry about sprays.

Vacuum and freshen your living room furniture; dust. Clean your floors.

Wipe your counters.

Straighten and wipe anywhere you will allow your guests to see.

Friday: Do shopping for any groceries and supplies you need in the morning. Organize your mise-en-place: chop vegetables, marinate meat, etc. Don't set out your refrigerated items until you're ready to cook!

In the afternoon, start cooking your meal, do a final clean up of your house, and change your clothes.

When you've organized and planned, you'll have time to spend with your guests! Enjoy your friends and your meal! You've earned it!

 

Get your free printable, 5 Days to Dinner Party-- click here.

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9 Ways to Show Hospitality

Hello sweet reader!

I want to talk with you today about hospitality.

Did you know that hospitality is something we are called upon to do in Scripture?

Take a look:

       

Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.

Romans 12:13 ESV

She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy.
Proverbs 31:20 ESV 

Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.

 1 Peter 4:9 ESV  

 

Never before have we had so many resources for entertaining and making our homes welcoming and warm to visitors (read: Pinterest.) But are we using all our cute little pins in our real lives?

Are we bringing people into our homes to share meals with them, to talk and form relationships?

Hospitality, like so many other good things God has called us to do, benefits not only the person you are serving; it benefits you!

Showing hospitality makes us vulnerable. For many of us, our home is a big part of who we are. When we bring people into our homes, we're letting them see parts of us that they would never experience in church or at the football games.

How wonderful that we can open ourselves to others and show that we are human! Think about what a living example of God's mercy and grace you can be when others truly know you-- your thoughts, your mistakes, what we can so easily hide in public. What better way to begin to be authentic and stripped away with one another than by being in one another's homes, where we are our most genuine selves?

Invite someone into your home. Begin to form your community. Surround yourself with others and let them see your true self... the one God is molding you to be.

Grab an idea here:

1. Host a dinner party.
Tried & true method that still works! Start small & serve frozen pizza if you want... the point is the fellowship.
2. Offer to hold a baby shower or birthday party at your home.
If you know of someone who's looking for a spot to have a small event, offer your home. You'll get work with the hostess, the guest of honor, and all the guests, too! Look at all those opportunities to connect and love on folks!
3. Be the small group home.
If you are part of a small group, wonderful! Be the place where the group gathers, or be the backup place. Bonus: you'll be more prepared for group.
4. Be the after-school home.
If you have school-age children, make it an option for them to invite friends over. Volunteer to be the home that provides supervision for an hour or so, until another Mom can get off work.
5. Babysit for another couple.
Offer to babysit for another couple while they go out. You are ministering to them, as well as their little ones. If they offer to return the favor, that's a bonus.
6. Organize a progressive meal.
If you haven't done one of these, you're missing out! Recruit some friends and neighbors. Each family is responsible for one portion of the meal, i.e., salad, dessert, etc. The whole group moves from home to home enjoying the feast!
7. Host your family.
Make it a priority to have extended family to your home for a meal or a weekend. Even if they live next door, you'll find that talks in the wee hours can be so fulfilling.
8. Clean someone else's home.
Know someone who's suffering with an injury or illness? Offer to do some light housework for them. Take care of their home as you would your own.
9. Be at home.
Because we live in a parsonage, we get a lot of knocks on the door. We meet a lot of strangers who need help. This may not ever happen to you, but if it does remember this:
       
Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Hebrews 13:2 ESV 

Have you entertained angels? In what ways do you open your home to others and show hospitality? Leave your comments below.


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Much Ado about To-do

 

Who loves lists???

 

I'm working through Sarah Mae's 31 Days to Clean, and Day 6 includes a hint about lists. This got me thinking about to-do lists.

 

  I love to-do lists, and when I was in the work force, I never went a day without one. And as a SAH, I still make lists sporadically.

 

Of course, a list is a great tool, but if your to-do list has become your biggest source of stress, that's bad!

 

Believe it or not, the list itself may be causing your stress, and not the items on it.

 

Here's a few helpful ways to combat list worries:

 

Get Techie

If you've been using the standard paper-and-pencil method religiously for years, it's time for a new leaf. Try an app such as Wrike or Good Todo. If you're too attached to a physical list, try keeping a document saved on your desktop that you update and print out daily. You can dress it up with graphics and fonts to get you motivated.

 

 

Luck of the Draw

 

This is a fun method I use for completing chores. It's great to use with kids, too!

• Write each item on a separate slip of paper, and put the slips in a basket or bowl.
• Draw one slip, complete the item, and discard.
• Repeat until you're all done!

 

Highlights

 

Use highlighters or light colored markers to mark off list items instead of pen or pencil. This way, you can see the items you've completed, and you end up with large blocks of color that signal to your brain that you've accomplished more than you have.

 

The Ten Rule v1.0

This method works better when used for longer periods of time-- like a week-- rather than day-to-day.

• Make a list of the top nine things you need to accomplish this week.
• At number 10, write something fun & rewarding like getting a mani/pedi or taking the kids out for ice cream.
• The trick is, obviously, to complete all ten things in order.

 

The Ten Rule v2.0

 Like with version 1.0, use this over a week or a few days, or for even longer term goals or time consuming projects. You'll need two separate lists for this method.

• Make a list of ten things you want to accomplish. This could be cleaning out your garage or plotting a new flower bed. Title this "List One."
• Pick one item or goal that's really exciting to you, say, shopping for a new piece of furniture for your home. Mark this item off List One, and put it on List Two. If you like, you can replace the marked off item with something else, so long as it's not as exciting to you as what you just moved to List Two.
• You can now complete List One in any order you want, but must complete the entire list before moving on to write and begin work on List Two.
• Keep the cycle going as long as you can! It's a neat way to challenge yourself to complete all those projects you never get around to doing.

Throw it away, throw it away, throw away it, now

 That's right. Throw away your to-do list for at least one day. Trust me. If it's important, you'll most likely remember it without the list. Without a list as your taskmaster, you'll have the time and space to be creative and play. You may feel a totally lost at first, but just let yourself enjoy the freedom. If you see something that needs done, like laundry, do it! If you see something that looks enjoyable, like baking a cake, go for it! You'll alleviate a lot of guilt that comes from spending time on things that aren't "on the list." If this works for you, try and work without a list for a few days. I did, and I haven't made a list in over a month!

 

 

How do you work with to-do lists? Are you better on- or off-list? Leave a comment!

 

Truly Last Minute Mother's Day Ideas

Happy Mother's Day!

8 truly last minute Mother's Day gift ideas:

1) Take a picture of yourself, or your child, or both. Print it in black & white on your printer. Put it in a frame you already have in your house.

2) Bake a cake, cookies, etc. Put in something you have already (a tin, a jar, on a platter).

3) Pick some flowers/limbs/sticks/grass/whatever grows in your yard. Put it in a vase. Tie a ribbon around it.

4) Dig up one of your plants. Put in a flower pot, or line a basket with plastic bags and put it in that.

5) Finger paint. Pretend your child did it. Put it in one of your own frames.

6) Put some moss and a rock on top of some sand in a jar. Call it a terrarium.

7) Gift wrap an empty box. When she opens it, act mad, and blame it on the gift wrap counter at the department store.

8) Move like a tree. Pretend to have taken up interpretive dance.

Start earlier next year.